Visit the Ladies Profiles at any dating agency,
and their pattern of arrogance is Undeniable.
A Personal Story:
I've always wanted to meet my soul-mate.
...A special someone, whom I can love for the rest of my life.
...A woman to hold & embrace.
...wake-up with, and spend each lasting moment for all eternity.
One to make the center of my life, And bring such happiness to.
I believe in love, and it shall always burn a yearning in my heart.
A soul-mate while bring fulfillment to my aching heart.
and we shall share precious moments together.
Filled with Laughter !!!
And these cherished moments should last 'forever and always'.
This would be the only true milestone in my life.
Sharing my hopes & dreams with my special one.
So, I decided to pursue these ambitions for partnership.
And I joined an on-line dating agency.
The first profile I read was somewhat less than desirable.
The woman listed a series of demands which were impossible to meet.
I only fell short on One category, but still not good enough.
then I started reading through several more profiles. and matters became worse.
My eyes were met with a thousand insults. It was difficult to comprehend.
One lady joked and said that she was looking for a guy who's atleast "somewhat literate". And hopefully able to recite each letter of the alphabet 'fluently'.
Another woman laughingly said that the man must be 'showered & clean'.
While the next profile declared that the man should still at least have his 'teeth'.
As I looked further, I began to realize that [most] profiles were similar.
There were rigid requirements for height, financial earnings, background, and hair color. (etc.)
Also, there were countless women who were large-and-heavy. ...But they would only accept a man with an athletic build.
More than anything, the words truly hit with destructive force. I could list a Million examples.
But in shortened terms: Most ladies profiles were NASTY.
And, the more I read, the less I liked.
There were wise-cracks, and insults.
Plus unreasonable demands which no man could possibly fulfill.
But worst of all: I couldn't choose a better profile, because they were all pretty-much the same.
And, Ironically, with all considered, each and every lady somehow managed to demand 'respect' from her future partner.
Yet, of course, this too is a nasty remark.
I read through so many profiles. And along the way, I was called a dummy, a pig, childish, selfish, smelly, over-sexed.
Plus, some even suggested that I'm devolved on the scale of humanity.
This sure doesn't sound like the sort of stuff which you'd read in a dating/ marriage agency.
What The Fukk is going on, here?
I don't deserve this kind of abuse !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Then, to add insult to injury: there were the usual 'head-games'.
(We sometimes call it 'reverse psychology').
Many ladies claimed that THEY were growing tired of abuse.
And suddenly, I began to get lectures which resembled a Television talk-show.
Believe it or not, things got even crazier.
My profile received a just few 'clicks' during the first week.
Initially, I chose to keep my financial earnings concealed.
But, during the 2nd week, I reluctantly revealed my good salary.
And the clicks immediately tripled. Then, I got the 'odacious' idea to lie about my educational background.
And once again, twice as many women instantly viewed my picture.
Apparently, she will only view those profiles which meet her rigid standards. Ironically, this "Cataloging" of people has come from the generation of 'Hippies' which claim to be against these Judgments.
Above all else, I was appalled by the BLUNT manner in which most Ladies profiles were written.
Yup,,,, the lady would directly come out and say,
"he must earn at least $75,000 per year." or,
"He must be 5'10" or taller". or,
"I don't want any bald men". Or,
"you gotta learn how to read"
"If you're not willing to re-locate, Please Don't Bother Writing". (etc. etc. etc.)
No-matter what was said, it was always rude and nasty.
......But I surely deserve better than this.
THE END----
UPDATE: Maybe I shouldn't admit this but, curiosity prompted me to read through several hundred Men's profiles. Hey, I just wanted to know what these guys were saying. And I found that each guy's profile was Positive, friendly and pleasant. And, not even one of them was NASTY____________
UPDATE 2--- I managed to search through the Adult personals as well. And it was pretty much the same NASTY routine.
"I'm Looking For A Real Man!",
"Can't You Do It Right?",
"I don't want some Sissy Boy",
"If I don't respond, then please look elsewhere!".
"I want him big, "
"he must also be successful,"
he should have a nice sports car.
Positively: NO apartments acceptable.
And, only AFTER you take me to dinner.
He must also be young, BLONDE, etc. etc. well-hung (is that a Chinese term?)" .
.........then she concludes by saying,
"Hey guys, the questionarre asked what i'm looking for, and These are my requirements. Too bad if you don't like it".. (It's hard to believe, but many ladies actually said this shit.) -
------------Hey, listen to the Title of this BLOG. ........N.a.s.t.y.
UPDATE 3: It doesn't matter whether or not the profiles demanded unreasonable qualifications. Even the more humble ladies STILL ACTED QUITE RUDE. All in all, her behavior was N.A.S.T.Y.
UPDATE 4: I decided to check-out the Christain Dating websites, just to see how serious the problem is. First of all, there were hundreds of women who demanded that the male "Respects" her religion. Most of the ladies required that he belong to the EXACT same denomination. Many women actually required him to belong to the identical Church. So, if he's a Catholic who attends Mass several miles away, that would be unacceptable.
Now, here's the interesting point. Many ladies were extremely religious. And they required the male to be just as involved. One particular lady summed-it-up by saying, "I am Very Very active with my church, and I expect my future husband to do the same."
AMAZINGLY, NONE OF THE RELIGIOUS MEN imposed these demands. Many guys described themselves as being very religious, but they never actually required the woman to belong to his faith. (obviously, Preachers would be the exception to this rule. But that's understood).
Anyway, since the religious ladies were also particular with their demands, It proves that, A wide-scale problem is, indeed, very real.
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BUT, SURELY, I DESERVE BETTER TREATMENT THAN THIS.
Presented by Men's Rights: Social Awareness (version 9.0)
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